LUXE Bidet NEO 320
The workhorse. Warm water, dual nozzle, installs in about 20 minutes, around $100. If you buy one thing on this list, I would make it this.
Tested, honest, no fluff
The Essentials
The stuff nobody tells you about. Tested, honest, no fluff.
Cleaning & Prep
TUSHY Classic 3.0
The prettier one. Cold water only unless you upgrade, but it's the one that looks good in your bathroom.
Silicone Shower Douche System
The on/off valve gives more control, but pressure control alone does not make douching safe. Douching is optional and can irritate or injure tissue. Ask a qualified provider for guidance.
WAFEAS Silicone Nozzle Hose
Softer nozzle, 39-inch hose. The gentler alternative if metal attachments make you nervous.
Fiber & Gut
Pure for Men Stay Ready
The cult classic. Psyllium, aloe, chia, flax. The branding is half the product, but in my experience the routine sticks.
Pure for Men Daily Psyllium (250ct)
The value pick. Same brand, plain psyllium, a fraction of the price per serving. In my experience it does most of what the blend does.
Odor Control
Nature's Way Chlorofresh Liquid Chlorophyll
A mint-flavored supplement option. Evidence for internal-deodorant benefits is limited, and results are not guaranteed. Ask a qualified provider whether it is appropriate for you and follow the label.
Chlorofresh Drops (2 oz)
Same thing, travel size. Lives in the dopp kit.
Lube & Toy Care
Swiss Navy Premium Water-Based Lubricant (8 oz)
My water-based default. In my experience it stays slick longer than the drugstore options I have tried. Check the product label and your condom and toy manufacturers' compatibility guidance.
Swiss Navy Premium Silicone Lubricant (8 oz)
An option I prefer when water-based lubricant is not lasting. Check compatibility with your condoms and toys; silicone lubricant can damage some silicone toys.
Antibacterial Toy Cleaner
Made for body-safe toys. Spray, rinse, air dry, and follow the toy maker's cleaning instructions.
Breathable Storage Bags
I prefer keeping clean, dry toys separate. Follow each manufacturer's storage guidance, since material compatibility varies.
The only two rules
- Silicone lubricant can damage some silicone toys. I choose water-based lubricant and check the manufacturer’s compatibility guidance.
- Avoid oil-based products with latex condoms; oil can weaken latex. Follow the condom manufacturer’s instructions.
Sexual Health
SKYN Non-Latex Condoms
Polyisoprene, not latex. I prefer the feel, and it is an option worth asking about if latex irritates you.
At-Home STI Test Kit
Mail-in testing can be convenient. Many providers suggest testing every three months for some people based on exposure and prevention needs, but timing and test sites should be individualized. Ask your provider what fits your circumstances.
Travel Pill Case
For PrEP and doxy, if your provider has you on them. Unsexy, and in my experience the reason you actually stay consistent.